Guest Blogger
Anna Chainska
Business Coach
Unapologeticwealthandsuccess.com
Looking from hindsight, I portrayed this very negative, victim mindset.
I tried to follow the crowd. I believed holding a Master’s Degree would solve my issues, financially, finally achieving happiness. To my surprise, nothing changed!
I was really disappointed with myself, as well as those who trapped me into the illusion that higher education would give me an identity, money and happiness.
It was then, without reason, I chose to leave my native land having earned my Master’s degree. I suppose I was looking for a better life! I settled in the UK.
My search and journey went on for years. I can see clearly now, the many times I was guided by a higher power. Today, gladness fills me having followed it.
I got married, and had a baby when my son was 9 months old, I was scheduled for surgery.
Though the surgery was not critical, I had my first awakening to consciousness the night after. As I lie in bed, recovering from surgery, I suddenly felt myself losing consciousness. I knew something was truly wrong!
The nurse arrived to check on me, as I could feel her panicking as she pressed emergency buttons. Before help arrived, the image of my 9 month-old son appeared to me in a vision. I could hear myself whispering, "God please, let me live! I can't leave my son now. He is just too young.'
The resuscitation team arrived, and I survived! Since then, my life has changed!
I've seen the bigger picture. I realized how caught up I became in my daily dramas. And I also felt myself welling up with so much strength!
I will never forget that day, when I went for a walk with my husband, shortly after my surgery. I said to him, "You know, I feel as if somebody put different lenses on my eyes. I see the possibility. I feel limitless.”I remember wanting that feeling to last forever!
Nevertheless, I released it and continued on with my life for another four years!
Indeed, a long time! I completed a lot of training and courses during that time. I became a Psychodynamic Counsellor. I trained to be a Kundalini Yoga Teacher.
I was unconsciously searching for my PURPOSE. And so, the Universe delivered to me another message through a very shocking and painful event.
I lost my Dad. On that day, I understood that things needed to change. On that day, I understood that I could not simply EXIST!
Create financial FREEDOM.
I wanted to live the life of my dreams, as my Dad never did! Losing my Dad, was my absolute WAKE UP call! I suddenly realized how fragile life truly is, and that tomorrow isn't promised. Loss can happen to anyone, including myself.
Since then, my life completely changed and things have never been the same.
I made a conscious decision that I wouldn't settle for less. I made the decision that I would steer the direction of my life.
No more NEGATIVE MINDSET.
No more STANDARDS LIMITATION.
No more playing the VICTIM.
No more PLAYING SMALL.
No more simply EXISTING.
I embarked on a very adventurous and exciting journey!
Although a challenge, it has been worth every TEAR, and every SMILE. I reached my desires. I created a plan. I envisioned the life I wanted. I got support. I 360˚my life!
In the short space of ONE YEAR! I have built a successful business, and live an amazing personal life. But most importantly – I feel HAPPY, FULFILLED, and SATISFIED because I LIVE MY PURPOSE.
I help passionate and spiritual women entrepreneurs create financial freedom.
Although I obtained this for myself, it was done with my children at heart! Yes, I did it for my children.
I wanted to break my family cycle –Financial struggle, scarcity mindset, unhappiness, and life unlived. I didn't want the older generations’of my family beliefs running my, or my children’s’ lives so I broke the cycle! I stopped it.
I am so proud to see my children today, saying, "I can do anything! I can be anything life allows.”
Thank you DAD!